My girlfriend rant....

[justinwebb]

So my girl and i split up a month ago and we agreed to just see each other occasionally so we can get some time apart....she moves out of the house (another long story in itself) so we hang out like 2 times a week...now mind you i love this girl to death would do anything for her spent 1.5 years with her and she doesn't know if she wants to get back with me........fast forward to last night try to call her no answer go over to her apt and she is with a dude which i have found out she has been fucking for a week without saying anything to me since we agreed we both wouldn't see other people and is also her other ex....so dude comes out starts pushing me and shit and talking crap and all i wanted to do is talk to her he chases me down the street cause i didn't want to fight and he jacks me in the back of the head as i am walking away then i turn around he jacks me again in the jaw i fall to the ground since i have never been in a fight (yes i know) but stood up and he kicks me so now i am pissed and have no clue what to do she obviously doesn't want to be with me but i still love her and want to be with her and don't want to lose her.....any ideas....


Cliff notes
Break up with girl
Still try to work things out
find her and her ex bf fucking
he is psyco pushes me and attempts to basiclly kill me
still want to get with her

sorry i was pissed and had nobody to talk to

[Kataku]

First, you weren't technically together, so you really should have seen it coming.
Second, dude, I know you said you've never been in a fight...but you could have at least stood up for yourself just a little before running away if shit really hit the fan.

And why would you want to bother being with her again? She's obviously not worth it, and you're 23 man, you've got PLENTY of time to find someone worth your time.

Oh, did she even attempt to stop her fuckbuddy from beating you up? Because that would be my answer right there, if she didn't.

[xxsenceo89x]

if shes with her ex and has bin fuckin em for a week while your were "toegether" id say fuck it. if you both agreed to not see other people and she did then she might not feel the same or shes tryin to get back at you. if she wont even talk to you then she probly doesnt wanna cuz she might be tryin to get over you. i went threw almost the same thing and it turned out bad cuz i kept tryin to get back with her and she didnt wanna. theres other girls out there. youll be fine. itll take time and youll be sad and depressed for a while but if you dont talk to her youll be better off. if she realy wants you shell come back.


and about her ex. if you were pissed why didnt you hit em? just go for the throat or hit em with somthing.

kill or be killed

[Porker]

Don't have any more to do with her man, i spent 18 months being screwed around by my ex.

But the new bloke would get a kicking IMO.

[anfrey]

1. yes you may still love her, as long does not disappear overnight... but imho you're better off.
2. you can file assault and battery charges against her ex... physical violence is quite illegal and you can put him in jail for that.

[Tiso]

2. you can file assault and battery charges against her ex... physical violence is quite illegal and you can put him in jail for that.
with anf. May be low and shit like that ,but fuck that.

[Mr. Jollypants]

1. yes you may still love her, as long does not disappear overnight... but imho you're better off.
2. you can file assault and battery charges against her ex... physical violence is quite illegal and you can put him in jail for that.
Not quite.. it IS

[Sundown]

First, you weren't technically together, so you really should have seen it coming.
Second, dude, I know you said you've never been in a fight...but you could have at least stood up for yourself just a little before running away if shit really hit the fan.

And why would you want to bother being with her again? She's obviously not worth it, and you're 23 man, you've got PLENTY of time to find someone worth your time.

Oh, did she even attempt to stop her fuckbuddy from beating you up? Because that would be my answer right there, if she didn't.

Well, but they sorta made an agreement not to see anyone else.. but that did sound kinda suspicious. Any time someone says that they "need some time apart", they're usually thinking about straying. I do agree about the standing up for yourself part. I personally don t have to worry about getting fucked with, but you could have atleast kicked him in the stomach or something I think :what:..

And the second point Kataku makes is good too. Why didnt she stop him? Its obvious where she wants to be, otherwise she would have tried to stop him. In all honesty, fuck them both. Just go find someone else when you're ready.

BTW isnt this the same girl you had problems with before?

[ImportFan1]

damn Justin. file charges and put him in jail. hope things work out man.

[justinwebb]

i dunno its just hard to let go of something you love....that and i suck at picking up chicks at bars any ideas where to go to meet some girls :P i really just wanna find the guy and use my 3 foot long breaker bar on his ass and yea same girl as before :/

does it matter that it happened last night so is it too late to call the cops?

[ryanM]

call them, it isnt too late.

[Pineapples]

file assault and battery charges against her ex... physical violence is quite illegal and you can put him in jail for that.

agreed. Let them fuck in jail.

[oldschooljdm]

go back with a baseball bat, hit him in the ribs a few times with it, leave, fuck his mother and/or sister in the butt

repeat if necessary or discontinue if dryness or flaking occurs

[Sundown]

i dunno its just hard to let go of something you love....that and i suck at picking up chicks at bars any ideas where to go to meet some girls :P i really just wanna find the guy and use my 3 foot long breaker bar on his ass and yea same girl as before :/

does it matter that it happened last night so is it too late to call the cops?

I understand that its hard to let go, but sometimes you just have to man.. And picking up girls at bars isnt the best idea. That's worse than picking up girls at clubs. The girls I usually picked up were either in one of my classes or girls that I saw out and about. Is it generally hard for you to talk to / pick up girls?

[Mini Prime]

Go find her bf and nail her lol hahahahahahha for real though man its simple why love garbage..... do you hug and kiss your garbage can? she is crap if she can sit there and watch the dude put a whooping on you she cares nothing for you. That is all you needed to see. Don't waste your time. My philosophy is if she can do it once she can do it twice , three times and many more.

[anfrey]

if you want a respectable girl, you should be picking them up at respectable places. bar wenches and club sluts do not make the best relationship material.

and it's not too late to file charges. just call up the police station (they are open 24 hours a day) and file a police report regarding the incident. make sure you state that you want to press charges.... and that's just the criminal portion of it. you can also file suit in civil court for monetary compensation.

[ForceFedCivic]

How old is this girl btw?

I was in the same scenario a while ago, me & an ex were having time apart when I find out shes now living with and fucking ( excuse the language ) her ex. Doesnt matter how much I cared about her as I now know shes a whore ( which I did call apon and bang at a later date :lol: ), but seriously man I just up & left when I heard that & continued on my merry way.

Lay charges ftw.

[NOFX]

if you want a respectable girl, you should be picking them up at respectable places. bar wenches and club sluts do not make the best relationship material.

and it's not too late to file charges. just call up the police station (they are open 24 hours a day) and file a police report regarding the incident. make sure you state that you want to press charges.... and that's just the criminal portion of it. you can also file suit in civil court for monetary compensation.
:werd: to it all. (Hmmm.... ClubCivic? Hey, at least we have something in common more than "we like to drink/dance" or whatever though...)

Anyways, file charges against him.

It's not a bad idea to try to stand up for yourself, but honestly... this might help your case against him now. You didn't want to fight, refused to fight. Honestly... fighting is stupid anyway imo. I mean, I can't see Jason fighting for me unless someone actually wanted to hurt me. If someone just wanted to talk to me and I didnt' want anythiong to do with it, I'd call the cops for harassment before I sent Jason out to beat the other person up. He's not my hired muscle.

Stay away from her. She's only trouble. I can't stress it enough. This is seriously the kind of stuff that gets people killed. Not saying that would happen, but if she doesn't want to be with you, she doesn't want to be with you. Just do everyone a favor and leave it alone. Maybe she just wants to break up, maybe she likes the drama and the feeling that men are fighting over her, I don't know. But either way, she's not worth the hassle. No woman is. Had she cared for either you or the other guy in the least bit (and not been "afraid" of you) then she would have been out there pleading at the other guy to chill out at least.

Basically sounds like she's fine with possibly either of you getting your asses beat and possibly either of you having assualt charges presssed against you.

[Astheros]

i say let it go dude....and as far as the guy goes...i would say beat the shit out of him however you can but filing charges is probably a better idea so i suggest you do that instead.

youre 23....i am sure you have at least one girl you can call upon to fuck....theres always that one girl who you can call upon anytime and shell be fine. call this girl up...be out in public with her and trust me...itll feel better. i know its hard to forget someone but its only a matter of time before you do.

oh..and for the ladies..its not using a girl to get over another....i have a couple chicks...who like me so much that they would actually be happy to help me get over someone. as long as shes cool with it why not.

[Astheros]

the fact that she did nothing to stop the guy from hitting you is your answer as clear as any other.

[Tiso]

come on man. You live in C-bus, head over to the campus area. HAve your pickings of any type of girl!

[96 DX Hatch]

1 - forget about her
2 - take a crowbar or that pipe piece of a floorjack and bash it into his face a few times
3 - call cops, say some kuku bitch is beating the hell out of some guy in the street

sorry for sounding stupid, im very tired, but basically just forget about her since she obviously can't make up her mind.

[dank24]

I would have pulled my firearm on him, and warn him 2/3 times to back off. Then if he did not back off and still came after me, oh boy. But if I were that guy and some guy was coiming over to cause problems I would have done the same thing. Put youself in his shoes.

[NOFX]

I'm not sure how he came across when he showed up though. I mean, did the other guy just come out when he pulled up and start getting in his face as he left or what?

Kind of lacking on details there, so it's hard to say on if he was even seen as a threat or even if possibly the girl made him out to be one.

[EG-Owns you]

i say fuck that bitch go out lookin for a new one that respects you as yourself

[Genuine Rolla]

throw em' in jail.

[Beelzebubba]

Fuck it all.

Just get the fuck away from her and stay away from that nasty troll.

If you press charges, you are still linked to her and then it's your word against their's when it goes to court.

Do not call that nasty bitch, do not answer her calls, do not check up on her when she doesn't answer her phone if you fuck up and call her. Do not hang out in places she might be.

If you miss her REAL bad and are sitting at home alone, pop a couple of Tylenol PM and try to crank one out before you fall asleep or something BUT DO NOT CONTACT HER!

You and her will either get over each other or she will come crawling back to you on your terms.

If it was me, I'd just cut that scandalous triflin' bitch the fuck loose forever.

[ForceFedCivic]

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[spook4thecia]

I wouldv'e half drawn my XD.45 and told him not to touch me. I would say "I want to speak with my ex girlfriend. If she doesn't want to talk, that's fine I'll leave. But if you lay a finger on me, I, since I don't fight, will feel like my life is being threatened and will put two in your chest. But I'll be damned if I'm going to be threatened by a low life little shit like you." That usually shuts them up.;)

Oh yeah and fuck the girl. Been there done that. I've always said hell's reserved for murderers and cheaters.

[Going-West]

As soon as that guy touched me I would have blown both of his kneecaps out. Fuck that guy. Hey, fuck that girl too!

[justinwebb]

well guys and girls thx for all the response I have gotten to talk to her and we are done and i won't be seeing her anymore...it still hurts though but i am sure once a little bit of time passes it will be fine.....but for the guy he has a suprise coming for him......i called up my other ex last night and we went out to the bar and talked and a few other things :P its just fucked up that it had to end that way and that i had hoped for so much more between us....oh well going to get drunk again tonight!!!!

[Beelzebubba]

I like to think of myself as being big enough to just walk away when it's not worth fighting for...

...my history has proven otherwise though. :oops:

The adult thing to do is to just walk away, I know...

[can87]

well guys and girls thx for all the response I have gotten to talk to her and we are done and i won't be seeing her anymore...it still hurts though but i am sure once a little bit of time passes it will be fine.....but for the guy he has a suprise coming for him......i called up my other ex last night and we went out to the bar and talked and a few other things :P its just fucked up that it had to end that way and that i had hoped for so much more between us....oh well going to get drunk again tonight!!!!

just do not see her again and things are gonna be fine for you, trust me.

and oh, dont drink and drive lol

[Akiahara96]

just make sure you don't talk/see her anymore, since you've decided to be completely done. exs can't be friends in a situation like that, so just make sure you don't see or talk to her. you might fall into a nasty cycle that way. ;)

[anfrey]

aye, and if she tries to contact you... just ignore her. you don't need that kind of bullshit in your life.

[ST8JDM]

dude i say fk her!!! i know its EZr said than done but its true shes fking him allready its been a week i wont be surpd. if she was cheating on you with him from b-fore and if she didnt stop the fight then she is a worthless b*** SORRy i know your going to hate me for what am saying but look at it this way [would you let any one touch her ] i didnt think so and dude there is tons of grls out there dnt let one bring you down

by the way NICE GUYS FINISH LAST keep that in mind

[Sundown]

well guys and girls thx for all the response I have gotten to talk to her and we are done and i won't be seeing her anymore...it still hurts though but i am sure once a little bit of time passes it will be fine.....but for the guy he has a suprise coming for him......i called up my other ex last night and we went out to the bar and talked and a few other things :P its just fucked up that it had to end that way and that i had hoped for so much more between us....oh well going to get drunk again tonight!!!!

Back in the saddle already :thumbs up

[spook4thecia]

aye, and if she tries to contact you... just ignore her. you don't need that kind of bullshit in your life.

:werd:

Like I said, been there done that. JUST DONT DO IT!! no compromises;)

[anfrey]

:werd:

Like I said, been there done that. JUST DONT DO IT!! no compromises;)
aye, deciding to never talk to one of my exes was one of the best decisions i've ever made.

[justinwebb]

so went to the bar and soemhow she shows up with HIM so i couldn't just stay there cause i kept thinking about what i could od to him so i left....killed my night

[DirtyD]

Well that sucks... but take a loss and just don't talk to her.

Jealousy is NEVER worth it. If it took her no time to fuck her ex she would've eventually cheated on you. Consider it a favor from him... and him slappin ya around was him knocking sense into you to see the situation.


... o o and rebound relationships are NEVER good fyi :lol: