i just looked you can get yourself a cheap 70-300 for like 140 and a vivitar 1.7 converter for 149 i would say that would be a good setup for what you want to do....you cant shoot in low liighting with that converter tho....and bewarned....your going to have to be a ways away to get and decent shots anywhere else with that telephoto so you may want to think about getting a standard zoom first or as well as the telephoto lense perhaps a 50 1.8 those are extremely sharp for 100 beans
Umm... You do realize for $140, if you wanted a 70-300m, you would either have to buy a Sigma or Tamron brand, get the AF Nikkor (which doesn't autofocus on the D3100), buy a broken AF-S Nikkor (if anyone is even selling one), or get an AMAZING ass deal on an AF-S one (since they are $450 new). And from the sounds of it earlier in the thread, the OP prefers to have lenses that autofocus on their own.
I've read up on the Sigma 70-300. It's not all that great, but it's not horrible. Between 70-200 is fine, but at 300mm, I hear it sucks (a lot of border distortion, I forget the technical term for that). Can't say about the Tamron model but I'm sure it's not far behind the Sigma.
And the only Nikkor 50mm 1.8 you can buy for $100 is, again, the AF version. The cheapest AF-S version is the 1.4G that starts at right over $400.
You'd be surprised what a 300mm focal length lens can do. Don't forget that unless you have a full format sensor you're getting a multiplication factor anyway.
This.