People messin you over

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How many people have messed you over severly in your life? My best homie just messed me over and I don't know whats up. I can't go into detail cuz the 5-0 is involved but he ofered me money and some work. I don't know what to do but that's not the meenin of this thread. Who has messed you over over so bad you will never forget. If you can explain your story.
 

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Well, ok there was this guy who was the OP started a thread about who messed you over, but doesn't want to get into detail with his buddy who messed with him. So it got me all confused because I thought you were suppose to tell the story. Especially he was the OP, figure he should've set an example how the thread should go, but nope. So he messed me over by not telling the full story. :P
 


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i was friends with this guy who helped me ass tons with my honda. but when i spun a rod bearing andd needed a place to put my motor he said i could put it in his garage until i found space. like a week later he thought i had given him the motor to keep. i wa slike hell no. then he tried to charge me storage fees. what a b***h.
 


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i have one person that im currently digging a hole for in my backyard... ;)

he owns a scammer website and he is the biggest scam artist i have ever met in my life. i want to turn him into the cops, but he is too connected with jackers and bangers for me to do anything without serious fear of retaliation against myself and my family.

looking back he's jacked/scammed me out of about $700 in the past year (ok $500 is what he taxed me on my car.. i understand you gotta make $ and all, but bumpin up the price $500 on a theft recovery is pretty lame.. especially for all the s**t ive helped him out with) and various other disrespectful crap.

im going to get my revenge though.. not sure how yet.. and it definitely wont be anything illegal... probably rat him out to cops or a set. (lol thinkin now.. it took him 5 weeks to transfer my title... i got 2 parking tickets in that time.. neither of which are going to be paid haha)
 

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I got fucked over by the doctor that failed at my moms abortion when she was pregnant with me

 

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I've posted a thread on one of my experiences....

http://www.clubcivic.com/board/showthread.php?t=86464

I also had my best friend tell my ex-boyfriend that I had cheated on him. Granted I had, but she knew the entire situation AND was also cheating on her own boyfriend (who was ready to propose... he late re-thought that position though). She lied and told me she didn't tell him after I had already heard her admit it. My ex called her on his cell phone, held the phone away between both of us so I could hear it, and told her that no, I wasn't there. I can only imagine she was jealous of the way my boyfriend acted in comparision with her own (she wasn't completely happy because she had some odd demands... like he was 100% not allowed to view or own porn of any kind - she also was more into partying than he was).

Either way... she was my BEST friend.... not my boyfriend's best friend (and trust me, he hated her before, and after even more). It was a very clear hatred... there was nothing going on there. When I wasn't with my boyfriend I was usually with my bestfriend. We were inseperable.

I knew her since middle school and this happened about two years ago or so. I just felt like everyone abandoned me. So I just walked away form them. They're not worth that stress.

I've had friend who tried to force me into what they were interested in (drinking beer at the beach and doing various drugs) but they never really stabbed me in the back so much as just act like assholes.

Because of my former best friend I now have serious trust issues with people and don't make friends very easily just because of my unwillingness to let people get close now. I actually was pretty popular in high school even. Just now, I'd rather not be around most people because I feel I can't trust them. I'd like to be able to make friends as easily as I used to, but that's become a handicap for me. I even talk to some people, and Jason will mention I should gie them my number for example... and I'll say I just don't know them well enough to have them calling me at home. Thing is... I never will.
 

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^ ouch. That's some serious stab wound by a best friend since middle school. Although cheating is a big no no..
 

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Pineapples said:
^ ouch. That's some serious stab wound by a best friend since middle school. Although cheating is a big no no..
Oh yeah, I agree, but she was my best friend... I knew I fucked up. I just kind of felt stuck. She knew. She knew I knew I fucked up. She knew how upset I was about it. Talk about mind fucking yourself. I never imagined my best friend to stab me in the back unless I physically hurt someone.
 

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Well, best friend is best friend, you don't stab your best friend's back whatsoever. You are suppose to stand by that person till the end, fight the bad times and pick each other up when another person is down. It's a different story if you were doing drugs and she wants to help you by telling someone. But this is crossing the line. Believe it or not, I had my back stabbed by my best friend, too. Except she was my girlfriend. Till this day, I am still hurt by that wound. Ever since that happened, I begin sterotype girls and hated them all. "pretty to hot girls = bitches and whores who don't give a s**t to people's feelings; not so good looking girls = okay to be friends with" I didn't want to talk to them, I didn't want to look at them, I didn't even want to sit next to them or walk anywhere close to them. In a way, I am still like that. But not as bad now. So yeah, I know how it feels being stabbed by your own best friend. It seriously hurts.
 

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And it's funny because peopel will try to give you advice on finding and making friend after all that even though they have no idea why you might not make friends very quickly. I used to make friends very easily and I'm sure I still could... I just have trouble trusting them, so I won't make friends with them. I can still mostly go through the steps of making a friend. i'd just rather not get people too close because too often it seems they'll just f**k you over.

Sad that so many people put themselves first all the time. I value my friends and will bend over backwards for people who I think are friends. I had another girl who hung out with me around the same tiem as my ex best friend. She was bi and would occassionally come onto me. She was cute, petite, long dirty blondish hair, nice tits, overal a good looking girl. Well, she went out with this short, fat, dirty little a*****e. His black hair was greasy everytime I saw him. He talked her into wuiting her job and got her a job at the Pizza Hut he worked at. Had her get rid of her car so she relied on him (remember, both of these people are 19-20). And she lived with him in his apartment too. He'd beat her and she'd call me bawling. I wouldn't even ask what was wrong. I'd just ask where she was and go pick her up. No questions asked. Eventually I had to get away from that though because she thought she was in love with this chubby little fucker and wouldn't leave no matter how much he beat the crap out of her. We tried to get her to go somewhere safe, but she never did. Oh yeah, and I think her boyfriend was afraid of me... I was quite a bit taller than he was.

Oh yeah, and the ex best friend... Barb later told me she felt guilty that I was cheating. Bullshit. She was fine with her own cheating. I never even told her boyfriend until after they broke up (they broke up, later she told my ex about me cheating, later I told her ex about her cheating).
 




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