damn bro, you are having no luck with this are you!!!!
I have a civic harness that had B series sensors added to it (vtec etc) and its got 4 ECU plugs, 1 green 1 blue and 2 gray. If that picture is of the harness you have, that green plug looks like its missing half the wires!!!! and it looks like it was retaped but i could be wrong. as far as the other 2 plugs, they both look to just be missing the plastic housing, the green one on the bottom, is the same way on my harness, no plug. I went to check my car but its too dark to see anything, so I will check it out for you tomorrow. If you want the harness I have, your welcome to it. Its missing a few plugs, but with what you have and I have, you could probably make it work! Hit me up, if your local maybe we could meet up and see what will work out, im in SE pa btw
first picture is fine theres another side to the green pulg in your car and the other plug that goes into your ecu comes from the greeen plug other end. it's spice into each other if you look you will understand. i can't really explain it well. the other two pictures are way to freakin blurry for me to tell what they are.