Check out jdmshit and look at their selection of lips. Thats the way I'd go personally. I've see a few body kits and the fitment is horrible, which never looks good no matter what your style is.
not only do you have to worry about it breaking, but the fitment too. You gotta remember that the photo's that you see online are of cars that have had hours of body work done to them to make the product look decent.