Do to your car whatever you want and forget what other's say, its your car and everyone has a different taste, if you listen to what most people say you probably end up not liking it, first try to figure out what do you want your car to look like, if your going with that JDM look a body kit is a bad idea, if you want that Fast & Furious look then go for it, good luck and stay tuned
Dude your car has SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much potential to look nice. Please don't ruin it. As most others have mentioned, i'd stick with JDM/OEM parts. A nice drop, decent lip kit (no ebay please), and some wheels would make your car look nice. Very nice. Just make sure you stay focused on one theme, don't mix ricer parts and japanese parts coz then it will look like poo.