Not to rain on this parade, but if you gotta buy your girlfriend things so she doesnt complain about you buying car parts....shes not for you. Your money is your money! Grow a pair and go boost Greg!
X2. That's the thing that makes me mad, I hate people asking why or complaining about me spending money on my own car
I dont mean to come off as a d**k, but its not right, your buying her happiness, you needa be you and do what you want, believe it or not there are women out there who enjoy a man who can balance his money on "hobbies," living expense, and leisure activites! And they wont require you to spend money on them other than traditional events like going out to eat.
Hell even my girlfriend of 4 years pays for movies if i buy dinner, or vis versa!
well thats where im no good, i dont balance and spend money on traditional things. i get my mind on something i put everything i got into it and will only spend money on something that needs to be paid. if i really want a part, i wont go out to eat, i pack a lunch, buy minimal gas, drive no where unecessary, i dont go out and do anything. i literally just work and nothing. i also start working rediculous hours to make every dollar i can
i cant tell you the last time i personally bought new clothes or shoes. she gets me then for my birthday because she knows i wont buy them since id rather put it into the car
but occasionally i try to take her out or get her something just so she knows i dont spend money on just the car, plus she is always spending her money on me bringing me lunch and buying me stuff constantly. Plus we have been together over 4 years so i dont mind. the ring wasnt real expensive, she only gets that on her birthday lol
Moral of the novel, i only spend money on my car and things necessary to pay really, i dont do things because i dont want to spend money. My entire family and her hate my car with a passion because its taken over my life basically. To the point where my parents want me to get a car that will need payments so i dont work on it, but that will just result in me working even more hours per week to do it. im obsessed
also woman deserves things here and there, she spends a lot of her money on me
no offense taken either by the way, there is a lot more that you dont see for it all to make sense