Im 16. Ive been dating the same girl for 3 years. I don't even log onto her stuff and get all fricked like you. Heck,she cheated on me in the past, and the guy she cheated on me with is one of my best friends. I got over it. Just get over it dude...And just remember the past is past..
i f**king hate girls.
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Haha..you just owned him!
im going to allow this to proceed
cheating is never good. and yes ive experienced how people wont trust you after they cheat on you cause they think youre going to repay them back. it ended my relationship.
my advice....let go of each other unless u know u can put it in the past.
how do you know? do you ever bring it up when you fight? if you do forget about it and move on.
no trust = no relationship = no love
my advice....let go of each other unless u know u can put it in the past.
how do you know? do you ever bring it up when you fight? if you do forget about it and move on.
no trust = no relationship = no love
I have several of my exes and old friends in my Gmail contacts still (I don't use AIM - though they'd still be listed there too). It doesn't mean I talk to them and even when I talk to people, it doesn't mean I'm screwing them.this is just a rant cause i have no one else to talk to
well me and my ex used to both work at best buy, and she was supposed to go on vacation but her work wouldnt let her go so she QUIT!!! just to go on vacation for one damn week. she was FULLTIME and made almost 10 bucks an hour, which is pretty good. she has been on vacation since saturday and she has been telling me how much she misses me and how she wants to be with me, so i sign onto her aim screename and what do i see? a guys s/n who she has cheated on me with in the past. i wrote her an e-mail telling her how much of a b***h she is and how all of her s**t will be sitting on her brothers porch waiting for her when she gets back.....ughhhhhhh im so f**king pissed right now. 2 and a half years down the damn drain. we even had the same damn car!!! only 3 years difference.
And if she's your ex, she's allowed to miss you AND talk to/see other guys. If she's not committed to anyone, she can do as she pleases.
I agree with Dirty. This probably has a lot to do with your trust issues too. When you're away from a person you sometimes have a tendency to remember the good only. So if you were suspicious of her and possibly controlling, then she might just remember the other good things.
Call of anymore interest with this girl. It's not her, it's you. You can't trust her, and might not trust women at all. So maybe you need some alone time so you can figure yourself out. Stop getting into relationships and don't even have sex. Don't have anything to do with women that could in any way be seen as romantic or related to being romantic. Get more secure about yourself so you can learn to trust someone else.
You banned her from talking to ANY guy? Wow... yeah, no trust issues there. That's beyond even "normal" trust issues. That will NEVER be the best for any relationship. Making rules like that will only make your partner hate you for it.
I was just about to mention that there's a saying that goes somethign like, "The people who are most suspicious of people being cheaters are those who have cheated." Seems like you are a cheater though. You better hope for your sake (if you do want to stay with her) that she doesn't believe, "once a cheater, always a cheater."
You logged into her AIM account. That is not the right thing to do.
Maybe she cheated on your before, and you're obviously not over it yet. You said you two aren't together, so there should be no issues right now. Either you're both trying to get together and work things out, or you're not.
I've been with my boyfriend for over two years so far and I don't snoop around in his stuff. He doesn't mess with mine because he knows he wouldn't like his privacy invaded either. It's not "okay" as long as they have nothing to hide. It's still an invasion of privacy.
I still get weird messages from some exes. And there's no way in hell I'd get involved in anything like that ever again.
I'd get into that, but wow, too much of an iceberg there. I guess it's easier to think the other person is the only one who did wrong or did wrong at all. It's easier to think of yourself as the good guy.
Don't look for trouble unless you want to find it. You might find something you didn't want to find.
my man spoke the truth.
aparently you missed the part where he cheated on me 5 gazillion times FIRST!!
holy crap.
I just read this whole entire thread, most of it has been filled with fail advice.
But what I highlighted above has to be the stupidest thing that Ive read so far. You say that if a relationship doesnt have trust, its worthless RIGHT after stating that youd only be fine with her talking to him if you knew what they were talking about. If you trusted her, then you shouldnt have to know what theyre talking about.
thats cool if you wanna talk about your nails and boys
im guessing you take take everything you read seriously
No we dont talk about nails or boys unless shes bitching about her boyfriend because hes an a*****e.
And I dont take things that I read seriously all the time, but its the internet, how the f**k am I supposed to know that youre being sarcastic?
P.S. One of the things that girls pay attention to in a guy are his hands and nails. Keep that in mind playa
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And I dont take things that I read seriously all the time, but its the internet, how the f**k am I supposed to know that youre being sarcastic?
P.S. One of the things that girls pay attention to in a guy are his hands and nails. Keep that in mind playa
:.i was just being an ass
in all seriousness though, girls that i dont find attractive i dont even bother talking to or befriending in any way... so i guess its true to some extent
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